Romantic Things to Do in San Francisco

Here's how to spend Valentine's Day or a special romantic day in the Bay Area. From vineyard tours to museum dates, here's how to fall in love with San Francisco.

Published: July 18, 2024
Romantic things to do in San Francisco

There are few places in the country as romantic as San Francisco. Sweeping ocean vistas, verdant wine country, and charming historic city streets lend themselves very nicely to date nights. If you’re looking for a few specific ideas to make your perfect romantic getaway – whether it’s for Valentine’s Day or any other special occasion – check out our favorite romantic things to do in San Francisco.

Visit the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art

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This prestigious institution is practically unmatched when it comes to its outstanding collection of modern and contemporary art. The SFMOMA is, in fact, the largest museum of its kind in the country, offering three times as much gallery space in this new incarnation.

Some highlights of their collection include works by Alexander Calder, Paul Klee, Robert Rauschenberg, and many more. You're also likely to encounter dozens of new and up-and-coming artists, particularly from the Bay Area, so keep an eye out for their exciting work.

Explore the art world together

San Francisco has always been at the forefront of the artistic world, and the various art museums around the city are a perfect way to explore your artsy side. From animation to textiles and beyond, there’s something for everyone.

If you love classical sculpture and traditional painting, the de Young Museum is a perfect fine arts destination. The de Young is also a fantastic architectural marvel in itself, so a visit here is a great chance to explore the building, too.

Culture lovers will be fascinated by the unique offerings of the Asian Art Museum. They boast more than 17,000+ works of art that cover nearly 6,000 years of Asian history -- quite a collection. There's everything from sculpture and architecture to textiles and jewelry, so you're sure to see something that inspires you.

Indulge in a wine country tour

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A tour of Northern California Wine Country is a unique spin on the “bottle of nice wine with dinner” component of Valentine’s Day. Instead of ordering on your waiter’s recommendation, why not take a tour of Napa and Sonoma Valley and become a wine aficionado yourself?

Sonoma and Napa are the premium wine-grape growing areas of North America, and there are dozens of high-profile and independent wineries to visit – not to mention the lush scenery perfect for that ideal couple's photo. Tours can be informative, fun, and a great way to get in the mood for love as you learn all about the most romantic beverage of all.

The California Academy of Sciences

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The California Academy of Sciences is renowned for its innovative exhibits, activities, and special events – and Valentine’s Day is no exception. Each year, Academy biologists distribute hand-made valentines (crafted by visitors like you!) to each of the members of the African Penguin colony. Although the penguins ultimately use the valentines as nesting material, the gift itself promotes bonding between penguin couples: an important emotional bond for a species that is known to mate for life.

Hop aboard a cruise

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This Valentine’s Day, venture out in the world with a beautiful San Francisco Bay Cruise. This one-hour tour sails directly under the Golden Gate Bridge, providing spectacular views of its unique architectural span. Then, you’ll pass back into the Bay past Angel Island State Park and Sausalito, continuing to Fisherman’s Wharf and past the SS Jeremiah O’Brien and USS Pampanito.

Perfect for photo opportunities of you and your loved one as a way to commemorate your special day. Of course, if you really want to up the romance game, there are specific Valentine's Day cruises available with various amenities and special extras. These are available through several different tour companies, and they all offer beautiful scenery.

Soak up the beauty of nature

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As you might expect in a city that calls the lovely Golden Gate Park home, there are plenty of natural beauties in San Francisco to please nature-loving couples. At the San Francisco Conservatory of Flowers, you’ll be dazzled by the hundreds of plant specimens that call this specular “living museum” home.

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From rare and beautiful tropical plants, to aquatic plants and special exhibits of regional flora, the Conservatory’s collection is breathtaking. Another great natural option for exploring the creative varieties of nature in chilly February is the UC Berkeley Botanical Gardens. Spanning 34 acres and featuring more than an astonishing 12,000 different kinds of plants, this charming venue has much to offer for floral fans.

Take a romantic bike ride around the Bay area

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Looking for something fun and playful this Valentine's Day? And an idea that still lets you see a bit of the city? Then try a Wharf and Waterfront Segway Tour -- voted the #1 Tour in San Francisco on TripAdvisor. This two and a half hour tour will escort you throughout the city's most popular neighborhoods and past all the big landmarks like Alcatraz, the Golden Gate Bridge, Little Italy in North Beach, and more. All on the delightfully charming segway!

Because this an adults-only tour, it's also a nice way to see the city without the kids (or even better, without other people's kids). Not quite sure about a Segway? How about a romantic bike ride around Golden Gate Park, with stunning views of the bridge.

Enjoy a romantic dinner

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Who doesn’t love a delicious dinner? It’s even better when it’s spent in the company of your loved one, perhaps with some nice champagne and a delicious chocolate dessert. Fortunately for you, San Fran has a fabulous dining scene, drawing from global cultures and locally sourced ingredients. You’ll find excellent meals ranging from elegant and high-end to laid-back all over the city, but some of our favorite areas to look for great restaurants include SoMA, the Mission District, and the Richmond.

Take in a show

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San Francisco has a fantastic theatre scene, from the grand and glamorous San Francisco Ballet to the funky indie theaters that populate areas like Haight-Ashbury and the Mission District. Remember to purchase tickets in advance, as going to a play or other performance is a popular Valentine’s Day tradition, whether you're going on February 14 or the weekends before and after.

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We hope you’ve been inspired to try one – or a few! – of our favorite romantic things to do in San Francisco. Whether you love wine country or the city itself, high romance, or quirky fun, there’s something to please every couple. 

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5 Days in San Francisco

Spend five days in San Francisco and you’re sure – like the great Tony Bennett – to leave your heart there. Of course you’ll want to tick off the big-hitters like Alcatraz and the Golden Gate Bridge. There’s time enough for all that, as well as getting under the skin of some of the city’s hipper neighborhoods and getting your fix of San Francisco culture. Heck, our suggested 5-day itinerary for San Francisco even fits in time for souvenir-hunting. Read on for our guide to the perfect San Francisco mini break. Day 1: Hit the Museums There’s no point beating about the bush: San Francisco has some of the finest museums and art galleries in California. Nay, on the entire planet. Indeed, you could easily fill five days here if museum-hopping was all you did, from the mighty collection of American art at the Golden Gate Park’s de Young Museum to the astounding range of (playable) antique arcade games and pinball machines and (often creepy) automata at the Musée Mécanique in Fisherman’s Wharf. The San Francisco Museum of Modern Art (SFMOMA) and Exploratorium are two of the very best, as well as being conveniently close enough together that you can do the double in a single day, pausing at the halfway point to stuff your face with authentic dim sum in Chinatown or to lunch on local cheese and sourdough from the Ferry Building’s farmers’ market on the Embarcadero. SFMOMA is the daddy of San Francisco art museums, boasting one of the largest collections of modern and contemporary art in the world. As well as crucial masterpieces from the likes of Matisse, Kahlo, Warhol, Richter and Klee, there’s a vast living wall that changes with the seasons, a rooftop sculpture garden and so much more. Over at the Exploratorium on Pier 15, you can interact with all manner of weird and wonderful art and science exhibits: simulate a sandstorm in the Aeolian Landscape, lose your bearings on the Fog Bridge and head for the Recollections installation to dance with an animated version of... you. Day 2: Ups and Downs Thanks to its 11 (count ‘em) hills, San Francisco is quite literally a city of ups and downs, a place where dedicated walkers are rewarded with breathtaking views and buns of steel. Find your bearings by riding an iconic cable car out of Downtown. Both lines go to Fisherman’s Wharf, but the Powell-Hyde line provides the best views of Alcatraz as your painted wooden carriage rollercoasters up and down the hills. You’ll also rumble past the hairpin bends of Lombard Street, the famously crooked road with its bright, floral borders and eight hairpin bends. If you really want to get the blood pumping, take the Filbert Street Steps challenge. There are around 500 steps from the very bottom to where the art deco Coit Tower soars above North Beach. It’s hard work, but worth it for awe-inspiring Bay views that take in Treasure Island and the San Francisco Bay Bridge. You’ll also meet talkative green-and-red Telegraph Hill parrots on the way up, as well as encountering quaint cottages, cute formal gardens and wildflowers galore. Check out the murals that decorate the interior of Coit Tower before whizzing to the top for far-reaching 360-degree views that include Twin Peaks, Alcatraz and the Golden Gate Bridge. Afterwards, go and say hey to the sea lions at Pier 39 before hopping on a cruise to Alcatraz Island for a tour of its infamous cellhouse. Day 3: Snap some San Francisco Icons San Francisco is blessed with some truly photogenic attractions, so if you’re the type who lives to fill your Instagram with pretty pictures, you’re in luck! Start your photo tour at the Painted Ladies, a row of pastel-colored Victorian houses on Steiner Street by Alamo Square Park, the elevated position of which makes for some great pics, with the skyscrapers of the financial district visible in the background. There are plenty more colorful buildings to ogle as you wander down through the Haight-Ashbury neighborhood to Golden Gate Park. Here, the pagodas and pavilion in the Japanese Tea Garden and the cute Dutch Windmill are your go-to attractions for the most memorable snaps and selfies. It’s about three miles from here to the iconic Golden Gate Bridge, much of that through the wildest sections of the Presidio. Or you can, y’know, take the bus. Either way, getting up onto that big, beautiful bridge should be considered an essential part of any San Francisco adventure. Your Instagram fans will thank you for the effort. Day 4: Shop for Souvenirs San Francisco is a shoppers’ paradise, with everything from upscale department stores to quirky gift shops. Grab a Golden Gate Bridge fog globe from any souvenir store worth its salt, or hit up the museums for beautiful objets d’art like, um, an Andy Warhol skateboard from SFMOMA. The Cable Car Museum is your friend for cool MUNI logo tees and dinky souvenir carriages in every conceivable form: fridge magnet, mug, keychain, ornament, you name it. Head to the City Lights bookstore in North Beach to pick up a copy of Kerouac’s On The Road or Ginsberg’s Howl and Other Poems. There’s no place more appropriate to do so: the store had close links to both writers back in the 1950s. Cookies from the Golden Gate Fortune Cookie Factory in neighboring Chinatown are an absolute must for seekers of quirky edible gifts, while the streets around nearby Union Square are where your credit card will take a proper walloping, with major brands including Saks, Macy’s, Gucci, Chanel, Louis Vuitton and Apple all too eager to help out with your dream shopping experience. Day 5: Hang out in the Mission The Mission is hands-down one of the Golden City’s hippest ‘hoods, a melting point of epic murals, fab coffee roasteries and world-class burritos that no 5-day San Francisco itinerary should be without. Start your visit by simply wandering the streets and marveling at the ubiquity of those colorful painted murals – some political, some in tribute and some, well, just for fun. You’ll find the highest concentrations in and around Balmy Alley and Clarion Alley. Take a stroll down Valencia Street to pick up those last-minute gifts you forgot yesterday. It’s an eclectic mix here, from vintage fashions and second-hand vinyl records to – wait for it – a supply store for wannabe pirates, where eyepatches, whale feed and scurvy medicine are the order of the day. Grab a specialty coffee while you browse, then make straight for the ace local taquerias for lunch. It’s a ‘Mission Burrito’, you’re after, famous around these parts for their soft, yielding tortillas, farm-fresh ingredients and frankly gargantuan size. Take yours up to Dolores Park and find a spot to munch while watching the world go by and gazing dreamily at the hazy Downtown skyline below. Save on attractions in San Francisco Save on admission to San Francisco attractions with Go City. Check out @GoCity on Instagram and Facebook for the latest top tips and attraction info.
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