Things to do in San Diego in May

No longer spring but not yet quite summer, May is a fine time to experience San Diego’s parks, museums and beaches, as well as getting into the SoCal spirit with a range of fun festivals and events. Read on for the lowdown…

Published: October 1, 2024
Couple on the beach in San Diego

Visiting San Diego in May

Fog over the San Diego skyline

Temperature: 59-70°F • Average Rainfall: 3 days/month • Average Sunshine: 8 hours/day

Ask any San Diegan about the city’s May weather and they will apologetically inform you about ‘May Gray’, the meteorological phenomenon that has been known to bring dense fog and overcast skies to the coastline during this otherwise pleasant month. A perfect storm of warm air meeting cold sea, this ‘marine layer’ usually hangs around in the morning before burning off by the afternoon, and tends to sit over the coast, rather than inland and desert areas, which have their own microclimates. It’s important to note, however, that sometimes the May Gray doesn’t show up at all, especially during El Niño years when ocean temperatures are higher.

San Diego’s microclimates (coastal, inland, mountain and desert since you’re asking) mean that – whatever time of year you’re visiting – layers are your friends. But perhaps especially during May Gray (and June Gloom) when temperatures can vary from cool and cloudy to hot and sunny in the blink of an eye. Believe us when we say you’ll be grateful you packed that cardigan, light jacket and rain poncho along with your board shorts and sundresses.

Animal handler at San Diego Zoo

School’s already out for summer by late May, which means rising SoCal temperatures are matched by increasing hotel prices. For that reason, you’ll find most of the May accommodation bargains earlier in the month but, in either case, we’d recommend booking as soon as you possibly can as May hotel prices can rise suddenly and dramatically from one day to the next.

Want to save even more money? Of course you do! Bag a Go City San Diego pass to save up to 50% on entry to San Diego Museum of Art, the zoo and safari park, SeaWorld San Diego and all manner of other city tours, activities and attractions. Click the buttons below to find out more and choose your pass!

Things to do in San Diego in May

San Diego Sightseeing

San Diego Museum of Art

Don’t let overcast skies put you off getting out and about in San Diego. Indeed, the cooler temperatures brought by the May Gray can count in your favor, providing less oppressive conditions for strolling the atmospheric streets of the Gaslamp Quarter, admiring the architecture and (many) attractions of Balboa Park, or exploring the street art and microbreweries in North Park. Fancy taking in some culture? There are several museums and galleries in Gaslamp and Balboa in particular, such as the superb San Diego Museum of Art with its impressive collection of Spanish old masters, the historic Gaslamp Museum, and the awesome USS Midway Aircraft Carrier Museum. Entry to all of these attractions (and more!) is included with a San Diego pass from Go City.

Cinco de Mayo

San Diego Old Town

Even non-Spanish-speakers can probably surmise that Cinco de Mayo celebrations tend to take place on… 5 May. This annual celebration of Mexican culture and heritage marks the 1862 victory of Mexican forces over French invaders at Puebla, and brings music, dance and margaritas to a number of locations and restaurants across town. But if you want a truly authentic taste of Mexico, make for San Diego Old Town – aka the birthplace of California – where you can expect artisan markets, traditional mariachi music and folkloric dance, and some of the best tacos and tequila in town. Olé!

Take a Run in the Sun

Joggers on the promenade at Mission Beach

Going out for a jog doesn’t get much more picturesque than in San Diego, where the Pacific Beach boardwalk, Mission Bay loop and Balboa Park will have even the most dedicated PB-beater stopping for scenic selfies every couple hundred yards. May's annual La Jolla Half Marathon is no exception, following an impossibly beautiful coastal route that includes a challenging-but-rewarding climb to the top of Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve before descending to the sun-kissed splendor of La Jolla Shores and Cove. You can also opt to join the final (and mostly downhill) 5k section of the course, a far less punishing option for novice runners to enjoy.

Meanwhile, the annual Navy Bay Bridge Walk/Run event sees participants departing from downtown for Tidelands Park via the Coronado Bridge, complete with sweeping views of the bay, Point Loma and Coronado Island itself. Magical.

Festival Frenzy

Unconditional Surrender sculpture on the Embarcadero

Festival season is well underway by May in San Diego, with a glut of fun food, music and arts events popping up like whack-a-moles across the city. SeaWorld’s Viva La Música celebrates Latin culture every weekend through June with a spicy mix of music, food, and children’s activities. Get ready to eat your own body weight in empanadas then work it all off with a tango or salsa. There’s also live music from big-name acts at the Bayside Amphitheater.

Over at the Embarcadero, the charmingly named three-day Wonderfront festival includes yacht parties, art installations, a craft-beer village, and more. Don’t forget to stop for a selfie (or a snog) at the iconic Unconditional Surrender sculpture (pictured)  just by the USS Midway Museum.

Gator by the Bay keeps it waterside with a huge Louisiana-themed festival on stunning San Diego Bay. Surrender to the spirit of Mardi Gras with four days of live music and mouth-watering Creole and Cajun food.

Last but by no means least, the San Diego International Fringe Festival brings cutting-edge comedy, cabaret, theater and improv to dozens of venues across town through May, including the Marie Hitchcock Puppet Theatre in Balboa Park and Wildsong Theatre in Ocean Beach.

Life's a Beach

San Dego surfer

If you know anything about San Diego, you’ll know there are no shortage of beaches at which to surf, swim, snorkel, snooze, seal-spot and stuff your face with s’mores. By May, San Diegans will have started returning to the sands. What better time to enjoy those wide sandy bays and picture-perfect sheltered coves, before the summer tourist hordes have arrived? Hit up La Jolla for some of the San Diego coast’s best marine life, including a whole colony of super-cute harbor seals, ride the surf below Sunset Cliffs, take sunset selfies against blazing red and purple skies at Ocean Beach Pier, and keep your eyes peeled for the famous ‘Sandcastle Man’ on Coronado. But, whatever you do, be sure to indulge in that most essential of San Diego beach activities: the sundown BBQ s’more, a chocolatey, gooey, crunchy piece of SoCal heaven. Yum.

Stuart Bak
Stuart Bak
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Stu caught the travel bug at an early age, thanks to childhood road trips to the south of France squeezed into the back of a Ford Cortina with two brothers and a Sony Walkman. Now a freelance writer living on the Norfolk coast, Stu has produced content for travel giants including Frommer’s, British Airways, Expedia, Mr & Mrs Smith, and now Go City. His most memorable travel experiences include drinking kava with the locals in Fiji and pranging a taxi driver’s car in the Honduran capital.

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10+ Romantic Things to Do in San Diego

Spending time in sunny San Diego around Valentine’s Day and looking for some ideas on how to spend this special day? If you’re looking for romantic things to do in San Diego, whether that's for Valentine's Day or for a romantic date night any time of year, check out our a few of our suggested activities. Wander Balboa Park San Diego is one of the most temperate cities in the country, and is likely to be pleasant even in mid-February. So there’s no reason why you can’t spend an afternoon or an evening walking with your loved one through the nation’s largest urban cultural park. In addition to its beautifully cultivated gardens and striking architecture, Balboa Park also features some of the region’s premier museums. So whether your love’s deepest desire is to visit the pandas at the San Diego Zoo, or gaze upon the stars at the Fleet Science Center, you will find plenty to do indoors and out. Stroll the Japanese Friendship Garden Part of the pleasure in Valentine’s Day is the personal time spent with the one you love. For a uniquely romantic setting for your personal time this year, take a stroll through this one-of-a-kind garden. Nearly 100 years old, the Japanese Friendship Garden, San-Kei-En is designed to offer Zen serenity and peace. It was originally created as a gesture of friendship between the U.S. and Japan, and now attracts visitors from all over the world with its simple design and classic features. A visit to the Japanese Friendship Garden will cultivate the perfect state of peace and harmony for you and your partner. Explore the Art World Since the dawn of time, man has turned to art to express his love. In fact, some of the most famous pieces in history were inspired by this universal emotion. To soak up some of that passion yourself, stroll through the galleries of San Diego’s nationally renowned fine arts museum – the San Diego Museum of Art. Collections feature everything from the European old masters, 19th and 20th-century paintings, and new works of modernism to sculpture, artifacts, and multi-media artwork. Over Valentine's 2020, you could stop by the Art After Hours for only $5 after 5:00 p.m. on Fridays, experience exhibitions and the Museum’s 20 galleries while live music plays at Panama 66 in the May S. Marcy Sculpture Court. Alternatively, on the 15th from 9AM - 1PM, drop in to their Valentine's Workshop where you will join Museum Educator Sheena Dowling for an interactive workshop that takes its inspiration from the many forms and expressions of love depicted in the Museum’s works of art. Learn about traditional printmaking techniques and use them to create your own embellished prints or card sets. Other artsy options in the San Diego area include the San Diego Art Institute and the Museum of Contemporary Art. Hit Up a Ball Game For the sporty couples out there, there are plenty of San Diego sports activities to enjoy. One of our favorite sporty date ideas is an afternoon or evening at the San Diego Padres Stadium, PETCO Park. You can take a tour of the park most days, or take in a home game when they're in town. There are few things as fun and date-like than a good, old-fashioned baseball game, complete with beer and hotdogs! Of course, this won't be available as Valentine's date idea -- you'd need to wait until March 26 for the 2020 MLB season to begin. If you're still interested in exploring PETCO Park, take a course of this beautiful establishment to see its unique architecture and the perfect situation. These tours are available in the off-season, so you could make it part of a larger Valentine's day plan. Reflect on Your History Valentine’s Day is not only a time for romance but also one of a reflection when we think about our personal histories and how we came to be with the people we love today. San Diego’s unique Museum of Man is on a mission to help answer questions about that quintessentially human quality. It’s the only institution in the region devoted to the celebration of diversity, and one of the only in the world that’s all about the human experience. Nestled in the heart of San Diego’s historic Balboa Park, the Museum of Man brings together beauty, history, anthropology, art, and artifacts from ancient and contemporary cultures. It’s a great way to learn something about our past as you plan for the future. After all, what is more essential to mankind than the idea of love? Adventure Through La Jolla Views don't come much more striking than this. If you’re the outdoorsy sort of couple who would love nothing more than to enjoy the fresh and beautiful weather of a San Diego winter, then some time spent in La Jolla sounds like the perfect date idea. Whether you want to hike, bike, snorkel, or swim, there are plenty of options to keep everybody happy. Plus, it's easy to rent the necessary equipment and gear, so no need to bring your own. Even better? You don't need a lot of (or any!) experience to enjoy these activities, so why not take the opportunity this Valentine's Day to try something new? Take a tour of the area, or explore on your own – there’s no shortage of beautiful vistas and stunning ocean scenery to keep you happy. Hop Aboard a Romantic Cruise Another tried-and-true option is the romantic cruise. There are several options floating around for your enjoyment (pun intended), like the champagne brunch cruise or the weekend cruises offered by Hornblower Dinner Cruises. Or, if you’d prefer something a little less formal and overtly lovey-dovey, then a regular cruise might do the trick, like a scenic one-hour Harbor Tour. This thoughtful cruise is an excellent sight-seeing option, too, so it's good for those of you who have come to San Diego for a special getaway trip. Indulge in a Romantic Dinner Call me old-fashioned, but to my mind there are few things as enjoyable as a good romantic dinner. Fortunately, San Diego has some of the most amazing food in the region for you and your Valentine to sample, whether you’re interested in high-end seafood or street-side Mexican. If you’re looking for ideas for great romantic restaurants, explore areas like the Gaslamp Quarter/Banker’s Hill, Downtown, La Jolla, and Del Mar. We recommend using a service like OpenTable to book your free reservations - just do it early! Take in a Show If you want to really impress your culturally-inclined date, then a musical performance or theatrical show is a reliable option. This time of year, San Diego has plenty of great shows in town for you to choose from, although there isn't necessarily a lot on the holiday itself because it falls in the middle of the week this year. If you can be flexible in your dates, the Civic Theatre has a performance by the San Diego Opera, and the Balboa Theatre is hosting the California ballet. Sweetheart Sail at the Maritime Museum Hop on board the Californian or San Salvador and enjoy a three-hour scenic tour of San Diego Bay on a special 'Sweetheart Sail.' You'll get to see native wildlife, the stunning San Diego skyline, and landmarks along the way. Enjoy chocolates and champagne while onboard your romantic cruise. Remember to Save on Attraction Admission From the classical to the quirky, and everything in between, we’ve put together some of our favorite romantic things to do in San Diego and we just know you’ll find something to help you put together that perfect date. Remember, some of these great options are included on the Go San Diego pass, where you can save up to 55% on combined admission vs paying at the gate. Please note, the special events taking place at some of these attractions may be separately ticketed and not included with the Go San Diego pass.
Katie Sagal

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